Today is a day marked by profound contrasts for me: my eldest daughter is getting married, while my father lies in the final stages of life. This poignant intertwining of hope and loss brings me face-to-face with the complexity of love—the messy, beautiful, and often contradictory force that shapes our relationships and our very selves.
The Unloved Self and Our Capacity to Love
Love isn’t simple. It is a dance between the parts of ourselves that feel loved and those parts still shadowed by the experience of being unloved. To understand how we love others, we must first embrace the unloved self within us with as much care as we offer to the parts of us that...
In an era marked by profound social shifts, many men find themselves grappling with questions about identity and purpose. With Mars— the planet symbolizing masculine energy and assertiveness— actively influencing our skies this month, it’s an opportune moment to reflect on what truly defines masculinity today and how men can reclaim their power in a way that honors both themselves and the evolving world around them.
The Crisis of Modern Masculinity
For some men, the upheaval brought by changing gender roles has triggered feelings of loss and confusion. Traditionally, patriarchal structures offered men a clear (though limiting) script: dominance, control, and unquestioned authority. Now, as women assert their long-denied freedom and voice, some men feel cast adrift,...
On a frigid January day blanketed in snow, thirteen citizens stood hand-in-hand in Sherborn, Massachusetts, forming a human chain in front of a statue of Mahatma Gandhi. It was Inauguration Day—January 20, 2025—and also the Martin Luther King Day of Service. The symbolism could not have been more powerful. In this moment of transition, as the nation held its collective breath, these individuals engaged in peaceful civil disobedience, forming what they called the “Peace Chain,” to sound an alarm about the state of democracy.
Among them were Quaker activists Bill Holcombe and Lewis Randa, whose refusal to simply go quietly has led them to face charges of “disturbing the peace.” Rather than accept a quiet dismissal...